Tannen, Deborah. That's not what I meant! : how conversational style makes or breaks your relations with others [Books]. Deborah Tannen. - 1st ed. - New York Morrow 1986 - Pages: 214 Abstracts Includes index. Abstracts Includes index. Bibliography: p. [206]-207. ISBN: 0688048129 0.00 LCCN: 01000885 Subjects--Personal Names: Conversation.Interpersonal communication. Dewey Class. No.: P/95.45 / TAN